grew in her faith. Beloved,I write this with love and compassion for all and w/o passing judgement on anyone. Why is it Bette obviously wanted to control her daughter and her daughters family. Monetary gain was on the front burner here. Very well put, Donna! Ive watched old talk shows in which Bette never did anything but PRAISE her daughter. :). Ego driven people who profess to be Christians often self appoint themselves to become Gods spokespersons on earth and can almost without any apparent effort justify any and all actions they do as a revelation from the Lord - directly. It is one thing for a parent to try to be a good parent and make mistakes versus a parent who just is abusive. As a Bette Davis Fan, I read My Mothers Keeper, some 20 years ago and recently started rereading it. BY ANCESTRY.COM. Obituaries Duke Duke basketball captain Jeremy Roach steadily leading the team, just in time for March By Steve Wiseman March 01, 2023 10:25 AM Duke's Jeremy Roach (3) drives to the basket. It brings us to our knees before God, always seems to have her hand out. Was it worth it? is a born-again Christian who heads up a church in Virginia. According to People, B.D. said in her testimony. Im now 50 years old, my mother passed in 87 and low and behold this woman who would seemingly be called a monster is now one of my heroes. As for a son getting a spanking, he probably deserved it. I look at the fruit in my life from knowing her and I see Jesus Christ. Not healing. I know Jeremy, B.D., and her two children, personally. The second viewpoint, one with which I more concur personally, is that it was at least more gutsy, however cruel, to have written a book about ones parent while said parent was still alive and in command enough of her faculties to still defend herself, which Bette Davis was and did, at least partly, in her own response book, This N That. This view would also hold Hymans book was more courageous (however self-serving and monetarily motivated) than that of the book (Mommie Dearest) about one of Davis greatest film rivals, Joan Crawford, as Crawford was already deceased when Christina Crawford wrote her tell-all tome about her adoptive mother. Praying for her isnt enough. (1962), as the neighbor's daughter. Therefore, I believe that exciting review about her is from somebody who does not know her personally. Her Mothers estate was mostly what was received from her awards being auctioned off, no real property or money. Hymans actions. Today. Thy Bible says honor your Father and Mother some of you have posted. a lavish weddingthrough the years Bette supported B.D. I give Him all the honor and glory due Him for the work He is doing in me, for His transforming grace. 2. She was far from perfect, but she loved her daughter intensely, as was her way. Find an Obituary. Gary Merrill said the book was full of outrageous lies and Michael cut off all contact with BD. was always supported by her mother and now that shes gone, she sells her false doctrine to the unsuspecting. A big ranch and oil company divided by two is better than divided by three. The end, however, is not so comforting. And to use Jesus Christ as her excuse to publish this book is disgusting. And she never got the help she needed, although she spent numerous times in the psych hospital. She is taking full advantage of her mothers name, even keeping the nickname BD. Send Flowers. Hyman might be a so-called Christian. I stumbled upon B.D. I personally think it was all about money. It is like a divorceits his side, her side and the truth is really in the middle. Ms. Davis was one of the most famous women in the world and by shaming her into accepting the Lord by embarrassment is a low tactic at best. Perhaps this is what is happening to BD. But one thing I do knowshe adored her children and grandchildren. I think that Bette was more envious of BD and her looks than anything else. Our family suffered. All words used by man to create the illusion of seperation and superiority. Bette Davis should have cooked her daughter a RAT for dinner after writting that book!!! I think each incident related was embellished. JoyceBette left an estate of over a million dollars and that was left to Michael and Margot. So, before you start writing about someone make sure you KNOW their name. In 1979, on March 28th, a partial nuclear meltdown occurred at the power plant at Three Mile Island Pennsylvania. abusive childhood. The average age of And she went on and on about everyone saying how pretty she was and how well she does this and that. The majority of my nights were spent alone in my bedroom listening to my mother cry, sob, and rage. for that because she basically said goodbye to any inheritance. If you would have lived B.D.s life from childhood, you would probably be a famous actress now, drunk with power and sin, wealthy from your mothers cash and your own fame and cash also, the spitting image of your mother in every way, and Hell bound. There were many Biblical alternatives open to her, ones that might have lead to healing, but she choose the path that would earn her the most fame and money. She wouldnt answer my letters I couldnt even be certain that she would read them but it was important to tell her that I loved her. Ive read B.D.s bk , and thisnthat, The lonely life by B.Davis. 1 death record. The only way to stop this suffering is to speak up about it. [Note too that B.D. Only a devil hiding in sheeps clothing would ever do such a thing. If it Not too much makes me mad, but you folks that are on here defending Davis.that makes me mad. Hyman. Share highlights of Jeremy's life. I also believe her to be a good person and a good christian. related that they tried to trick the Christian gentleman with loaded questions. All parents have faults; there are no perfect parents in ths world. However, I did call her out as I became more educated about her issues. I just found out tonight that she even existed, reading a wikipedia article about Joan Crawford, and then Bette Davis. 1933 in London), the British nephew of Seven Arts Productions owner Eliot Hyman, on a blind date for the film's showing at the Cannes Film Festival, in 1963, and the couple married when B. D. was age 16 and Jeremy was age 29. Hyman! And, though she married young to someone years older than her, B.D. Do not bother to respond to this email as your email address will be blocked from my server. Perhaps she would save the letters and take them out in moments of loneliness. And for much less than these prima donnas are being paid today. And through out the book she goes on about how neg. wowI just read Joanne hairstons comments on BD and Bette Davis. Id like to offer to pay for her cat scan. I was interested, but I wasnt doing anything about it until a few weeks later, she said. That is not right. I grew up with none of that, yet had to endure the wrath of a psychotic mother nearly daily (unless she went on one of her own self imposed sabbaticals to God knows where for weeks not giving a damn about us worrying about her.) I know B.D. MENU . hivelogic_enkoder_0_1235071298(); A world-wide network of publications proclaiming Christs victorious kingdom. Her God is swift with vengeance and punishment. Well, I read Ms. Hymans book years ago, and havent hunted it down for a re-read. Hyman is surely intelligent enough to know that by publishing this book she would only make the issues between her and her mother worse. But Mother did not die (but also still could not support her) so she and her family ran off to the Bahamas, to hide from creditors, and sell her book. God is so much bigger then family feuds, he forgives. Suddenly, I was surrounded by the presence of Jesus and felt urged to make a solid commitment to Jesus Christ. Sure, I thought about writing a book many years ago, to show that in this life, we are beneficiaries and or victims of our upbringing. expect her mother to be normal? Even to hear a Christian celebrity inspires awe in most people. I do not agree with Jack Normans take on B.D. I cut the ties seven years ago. portrayed herself as the sane,intelligent, beautiful one. As to BD, only God knows her thoughts or the intent of her heart. It was strange because we had been married for 20 years and this was the first time I stepped out and did something before my husband. I applaud B.D. It was 7:20 a.m., and I had just put my son on the bus. (snake in the grass woman) is, you better watch your backs because when B.D. Sign the Guest Book. God knows all that went on. Really? Like others have said: Walk away. Hyman very recently and listened to her 4 part testimony Long Days Journey into Light. Perhaps now shell honor thy mother since theres financial gain to be had. Its not so easy when youre victim. Shame on you, B.D. Difficult circumstances were thorwn her way early in her life, but she was a survivor. At the time of B.D.s birth, Bette had already been a star for quite some time! When I studied with her she was very manic and had no tolerance to those who did not act in a perfect way. It is an insult after her book to then want to turn her mother to Jesus. I think I could have easily written a book such as Hymans and meant each and every line. Obituary of Jimmie Monroe Hyman CAMDEN-Jimmie Monroe Hyman,82, passed away peacefully Tuesday, February 8, 2022, surrounded by his family. I am a what she terms Holy Roller. Has any of the above people changed their lives in the last 20 years? The story of how one mans spiritual convictions altered the course of history, The Forgotten Power of the Public Proclamation of the Gospel. BUT..that still did not give BD the right to publish such a horrific and painful book of her mother, regardless of whether or not the timing was wrong. She has written three books which were published by her ministry: Oppressive Parents: How to Leave Them and Love Them (1992), The Church is Not the Bride (2000), The Rapture, the Tribulation, and Beyond (2002). She just doesnt live a Christian life that she preaches about. At the age of 8, she and her family moved from Harriman to Oak Ridge where her . Its one thing to watch Bette Davis on T.V., but obviously quite another thing to have lived with her. That seems to be the cases with personality disorders (especially when co-morbid with something like schizoaffective). Yes, Im sure Bette Davis was a very difficult person to be around, but she was still BDs mother and deserved BDs respect nonetheless. Her young beauty is hardened and I, also, wonder what she does for the mentally-challenged sister. Do what they tell you in therapy and write a journal!!! Share memories and family stories, photos, or ask questions. I couldnt agree more with you Ann! Bette Davids may have been a terrible mother, I dont know, but that does nothing to justify B.D. Sometimes we do things thinking at the time it was the right thing to do, only to realize later we could have done things differently. And it is especially telling Bettes adoptive son, Michael Merrill, has shown a consistent devotion to his mothers legacy in all the years since her death; himself an accomplished lawyer and former member of the Brookline, Massachusetts town government. Discover how our Uncovering Our Shared Memories: An Introduction to the Community Standards at AncientFaces As far as her mother and her, that is not my business, but I believe B.D., quite simply and she has never steered me wrong spiritually. B.D. Also, are any of you any better by judging her? had a very small role as the daughter of the neighbor in the film and Hyman was the nephew of Elliot Hyman, the owner of the company that produced What Ever Happened To Baby Jane?. What she did was a hateful thing and oh wow she watched the 700 clubthat explains alot. I think everyone should be ashamed. She is very undereducated, having left school so young perhaps she just has not seen anything but her own views and therefore thinks she is correct in all she says. Look at her today. Jones was the leader of the cult and ordered his followers to drink cyanide-laced punch, which they did. was worried about whether her Hopfully she did give Bette something to think about in her final days and I pray that Bette accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior. So is my mother. BD wrote her book for money. Just like donna pointed out they are assessments on the situation. Very rarely do I ever hear people complain about how abusive their fathers were to them; maybe because they werent around? was elated. Phyllis Altimus Haer, 88, of Mechanicsburg, PA, passed away on Sunday, July 18, 2021, at UPMC West Shore Hospital, Mechanicsburg. Amazing Grace: The History and Theology of Calvinism. It did not erase my pain and in fact in some ways made it a bit more difficult; I regretted that I had not known this stranger. Ms. Hymans writing style, if one can indeed refer to it as style is nothing short of hilarious and again, one would think that her publisher, and you for supporting her in her ceaseless pursuit of the dollar, would be thoroughly ashamed. There comes a time when a wife and mother has to take a stand for what is right and when faced with the very difficult decision, B.D. That could have worked, certianly not a rude book. BD disgusts me, conversion to Christianity or no, she is a barnacle attaching herself to her mother because without her, shes just like everyone else. But Im not buying it. of New Rochelle, NY. Also, no mention of her mentally challenged, adopted sister, Margot. Bette also paid for the care & living expenses of her mother, mentally ill sister, and adoptive daughter, Margot Merrill, throughout most of their adult lives, as long as Bette herself was alive. At 54 now, I can look at my life and my 4 older sisters and their childrenthe affects of being in and around a toxic person are pervasive and spread from generation to generation. As an infant, she appeared briefly in her mother's film Payment on Demand (1951). At least the book about Crawford wasnt published in her lifetime, BD is playing the victim for cash or maybe she is just mentally ill like my child and believes her made up stories. I firmly believe that B D did not desire or care about her Mother recovering after the cancer and strokes. You are beyond contempt and there are simply no words to describe the greed, avarice, selfishness (what sins does she NOT exemplify?) Jul 27, 2018 - The new Mrs Jeremy Hyman with her Husband in 1963. B.D states in her book it was she that stopped all contact with her mother, not the other way around. The alcoholism was a major factor in Bettes life. There are essentially two ways one may view B.D. Ive found out alot about people the last few years, and the power and influence of money. BTW, just for the record. Hymans authoring a book about her mother. Never got it. My parents raised my brother and I with alot despite my father being paraplegic. Amie was born on September 7, 1956 . People with personality disorders are literally operating from another reality.) Your Dear Mother supported you all your married life only to have you (the one she wanted LOVE from the most) to rake her over the coals in her hour of need. Ive read the above May her soul rises higher. I get the chance to remember the Share yesterday to connect today & preserve tomorrow, Copyright 1999-2023 AncientFaces, Inc. All Rights Reserved, ADVERTISEMENT I am in the midst of reading My Mothers Keeper, and while Im certain that B.D. and she couldnt wait for her cash infusion from her disgusting book which was a complete betrayal of their relationship until mom passedmany believed she went ahead with the release as it looked like Bette was in her final dayslittle did she know, true to form Bette rebounded only to find her daughter betrayed her big-time and the uglyness still surrounds B.D. For if she truly wanted to deal with the pain she would have done it in a more personal way and she would have left her mothers name out of any of her future endeavors. My family was and is in the oil business, to this very day. Im a Christian, also a fairly recent convert, or revert really back to the Catholic Church that I grew up in. I judge no one; not my mother; not B.D. While some computer systems and software did have problems, the panic was unfounded and computer life went on. Sympathy Ideas. jeremy hyman obituary. It suddenly became important that I write to my mother. I deliberately became pregnant at 16 so I could leave home. made the only choice she could i.e., her husband and her children. William A. Hyman, ScD, Professor Emeritus, Biomedical Engineering, 74 years old, passed away July 31, 2019 in New York City. Yes, God is goodand so was Bethlehem Steel! My conclusion about Bette Davis, having read her two volumes of memoirs, plus about a half dozen biographies (including Hymans and two by Davis friend Whitney Stine), is she was a flawed-but-amusing, strong-willed & professionally self-righteous human being with a great talent, who tried to be a good parent but sometimes failed, tried to be a good actress (and sometimes director) and almost always succeeded! 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