The softer spoken ones seem less of this. Because of this, many foreigners see us as aggressive, especially when they work with us. Tell us by leaving a comment below. Theyre very proud of their shape, but its covered. What you described, for instance, sounds more correct of African-American hood culture to me than Jamaicans at large. They might tell someone their question is dumb but go on to ask an even dumber question but dont dare try to tell them theirs was dumb. get along very well. Ruth: No, its has a different Its almost is a I think an easier comparison because you caan even tek (cant even take) popular music, because thats a whole different level right there. Nairaland - Copyright 2005 - 2023 Oluwaseun Osewa. So Nigerians and Ghanaians in temperament tend to be very different that way. But I wasnt a historian. We want to hear from you! I can see this as embarrassing to admit. Instead of trying to answer this one myself, Ive enlisted the help of fellow Jamaicans to tell you why we are so mean after all or that youre totally mistaken. Hypocrite. You have to be mean to make them know you not too too nice so they won't tek liberty. We are very loving though. And with me today is Ruth Qwaqwa from Ghana, a Jamaican who is living there. Many Jamaicans tend to see foreigners as hypocritical because they will smile with you even if they can't stand you, Medium Fluffy (@averagejamaican) March 8, 2020. We Jamaicans are, for the most part, open and accepting people. It wasnt even, Bob Marley, yes, but there were others who were also important. They actually know right at that point that they cant come. Im not the one on someone elses website wailing and complaining. The other one that I used to get quite often and it would make me laugh. God forbid, touch wood, that something should happen to my husband. And of course I miss family because were far, and I wish we had a direct flight, what can I say. In Ghana when somebody dies, theres an entire protocol that goes around with announcing that the person has died. The irony of this is that, we are always the first to cite the iniquities of others and their countries without a room for us to accept our own. One mans hustler is another mans entrepreneur. We will brag about cutting lines while others waited hours. They say the British hate hearing butchered American English. Wait til you sign out. I mean, what is not a better way to keep slaves from revolting as a whole. And here in Ghana, its like everything is linked to some tradition. Theyll tell you you cant take critisim and a second later youll give constructive critisim and theyll get defensive then turn it around on you and attack. Xavier: Winding down and heres one of the questions. It also comes down to where you went to school, where you work, who you know, what you drive, where you live, how often you travel, the first impression you give off, how you carry yourself, etc. Ruth: Yes. How this translates is that, people dont speak and share their information with the speed at which Jamaicans speak and share information. . And I know dancehall music has gotten quite popular there, with some Ghana artists that have come out and performed with Jamaicans, so well have to have a music segment. Is there something Jamaicans Hate missing from this list? Im looking forward to, as you said, to wheel and come again.. So you have quite an experience then with, way down South and back up North? Ruth: So theres the obvious, which is the castle, which is where the last, you know, one of the castles, which was the last point for enslaved people. I think its silly to think Jamaicans are assholes and then wander into the lions den thinking she stands a chance. I almost beat her up. If we hurt your feelings yesterday, were sorry, but thicken up that skin because Lord knows we might do it again tomorrow! Who cares? What did they do? This is the number one reason Jamaicans gave for why so many people think were downright mean. And again, we kind of touched on it. They eat boiled green plantains here. THE TRUTH IS this is why you are disliked, hated even, by other islanders, your other side of the family. Xavier: Wow. Its one of those-, Xavier: I dont mean to interrupt yuh (you) but its funny because we went to the slave castle and that was good. Because for us, thats such a big deal in Jamaica to be a hypocrite. How Jamaican Men Say Thank You to another Jamaican How Jamaicans Greet You When They Have Not Seen You 20 English Words That Sound Better In Jamaican Patois. Thats all. So for example, if a relative dies, your own relatives could take a week to tell you that somebody important, somebody close to you has died because they dont want the shock of it to hit you. I wasnt romanticizing about it. It's not mean it's just that we have no time to pamper and sugar coat to save people's feelings. That said, homophobia is not mean. When I was in high school, I lived in Spain, loved it. Jamaican English tends to follow British So, even if youre six months older than me, you get my respect. Xavier: So my first question is, which paat a Jamaica yuh cum fram? Just try not to catch us on a bad day, eh? As time went on, I learned of the MAROON settlement and of the slaves who fled to the mountains in Jamaica. Again ot all are like this of course, but its a trend. She had a baby. What can you accomplish by not having a conversation that might solve problems? Jamaican culture has something called gimmicks where literally all we do is make fun of each other. Whats the attraction or place that if I come to Ghana, I should visit? Put Nuff Gravy is the anthem of many Jamaicans when they go to restaurants and street food vendors. The more bold and straightforward someone is the more they seem to be this way. So, people would be scared that somebody like me would come and have children here and then would leave with the children. Don't let the frown scare you. !..I dont know of a Bajan who doesnt respect a Jamaican and those who are intimidated by Jamaicans for one reason or the other, even if the dont want to visit Jamaica or have Jamaican friends, they still respect the Jamaican. Theres a lot of reverence for the passing of time. And it was emotional. The author clearly wanted her post to go viral and it worked. Jamaican men can try to boss Jamaican women around all they like, but unlike America, we have a predominantly Black Matriarchal culture. You are an affront to other islands Jamaica! . They do so because CLASS is what runs our society and money is not the only determining factor associated with class for us. Yogen No Ko (@styrofoambax) March 8, 2020. But people eat it raw. But as we all know it is not applicable to every Ghanaian. FOH, Go, get a damm haircut, and learn where in Africa jamaicans came from , youre a damm fool, Instead of writing this load of crap Why does the author not ask Jamaicans to stop stealing the $4million reported by LIME to stop stealing the copper wire for residents of Manchester to have service. Hi, Im Xavier Murphy, founder of Jamicas.com. Webi think hate for jamaican people is due to the fact that their country is a bit corrupt, and how a lot of them smoke marijuana and theres a lot of gangs and violence and murders in the So when youre in Ghana, you see Jamaica much more than you would see Jamaica in South Africa, even though they both feel homey. Xavier: Wow! Xavier: Well, it sounds like it was almost seamless, as I said. I cant begin to describe how their demeanor changes toward me when they find out Im not American, but Jamaican. Anyway. I know that when I first came here, I should have written a lot more because I knew some of it would become very same old, same old. Lets say youre walking through Spain and you seeing these historic buildings. Babylon give you a toy.in your mind you turn cowboy. Xavier: What? Wi tek bad tings mek joke? But Ghana feels like home in a different way. Look, when I met my husband, my husband knew more reggae lyrics in 87, than I had ever known in my entire life. they would understand why we feel less inclined to meet their own cultural standards. So, Ive lived overseas off and on quite a bit. Your experiences are yours and your observations are your own. So, you can decide, which is the right pronunciation, but its more people calling it, plantain and plantain. I don't think we're mean, but we're very direct for sure. To be clear, I was not looking for it. Unfortunately, when honesty meets the innate expressiveness of patois, people (mis)interpret it for unkindness. Jamaicas Sangster International Airport Getting MAJOR Upgrades To Become World-Class Facility! I would believe that if you believe. That my passport is expired. Maybe a little bit more, I dont know, but it wasnt too far. Between 1845 and 1917, more than 36,000 Indians came from British India to British Jamaica because of the deteriorating socio-economic conditions in India at the time. WebJamaicans hate utility bills especially for water and light (electricity). We really do. Youll miss how powerful women are because women run the markets, thats their business, and you can be a millionaire on the market. So, it is not me who needs peace or therapy. Xavier: Theres nothing else. WebRespect, Jamaica! bayonetta (@LaffehTaffeh) March 8, 2020, then how we relate to people (Jamaicans and even non-Jamaican who may be friends or not) comes across as mean depending on the social context and differences. When you and I sit down, separately, well have another conversation. This is rapidly changing, but not fast enough. Men being very bossy to women, using them, cheating. Its time for you to come back, but in the meantime, hope springs eternal. We are like, what you see is what you get. Hello Kim! Its not that obvious, but if you keep quiet, you can hear what Ghana is and hear what it represents. WebResearch like this is essential to understanding why that is, and how to change it. Went to go and report me to the bank manager. Britt The Beauty (@Britt__Da__Shit) March 8, 2020. When you treat people nice them tek disadvantage of you. THE TRUTH IS, we were taught to hate JAMAICANS. But theyre Ghanaian kids with international attachments. And they hear music the same way, but maybe on an exaggerated level, because the dancing we do in Jamaica is at one level, and the dancing that they do here in Ghana is at a different level completely. This conservation effort always So, thats a very hard thing for foreigners to get used to it. Jamaica is definitely an extremely homophobic country. But the way we flavor it with salt fish is a way they flavor the majority of Ghanaian dishes are flavored with some form of smoked fish that is cut up just the same way wed cut up salt fish. The tradition is very hierarchical. brap!. Mller and Schwarz (2021) find that the posting. Watching people dodging rain drops in Jamaica is like watching Neo in the movie the Matrix dodging bullets. Xavier: You need to visit. So, I mean, I remember at Christmas, I remember going to Jamaica at Christmas, and you know, you hear yu (your) favorite Jamaican Christmas songs, Virgin Mary have a baby boy. So, Jamaicans and other cultures too. Who said Ghanaians hate us? They say American hate waiting on the phone for Customer Service. Maam. So thats why Im hesitant to use the word lie. In some cultures, imitation is flattery. Every time a Southerner gives me this as their reason for why the South East is a great place to live, I burst their bubble by telling them that this is precisely what I hate about it and why I dont trust them. In the good and bad sense. Ghanians Why Do U Pretend To Hate Nigerians, And Ethiopians Love Us? Furthermore, our society and culture is inherently aggressive. And we appreciate you spending the time. So if you are going to be lying down on a beach in a swimsuit, you will find people coming home from a funeral, staring at you, kind of thinking, what are you doing? So they dont tend to display their body, to design clothing, to display their body like that. Thats all Im saying. Why up to this very day are Jamaicans still considered aggressive,criminals and unduly outspoken? Two such ones are traffigator, an amalgamation of traffic and indicator as is used on a car and with an inserted g for good measure. That you're hurt and let's be friends? I thank you for the education about Jamaican culture. Largest Collection Of Vintage Igbo Images [Blog]. Missing you. WebTHE TRUTH IS, we were taught to hate JAMAICANS. Why is that? As mad/crazy as they were (supposedly), these humans knew they didnt want to be slaves. Peoples behavior represents centuries of behavior that was interrupted at some point, but it wasnt taken away. So, that is typically, and I speak with lots of Jamaicans about that. If you think a Jamaican is being mean thats probably because we thought the same of you and decided to show you whatmean really is. Chances are, you assumed they were arguing. No. They just dont understand why the truth seems a bit delayed or seems a bit colored. Blunt. Do Somalis,ethiopians And Eritreans Consider Themselves As Whites? Its a hard exterior with a soft interior and lack of emotional control. Apparently, some Africans perceive Jamaicans as rude and think Xavier: And you may not have many of them. Xavier: It was about an hour away or, yes, about that. Rain is like kryptonite to Jamaicans. Thats, thats it. But I know that for me, this is home and to our kids, for them, this is home. Gotta Love Us / Do Somalis,ethiopians And Eritreans Consider Themselves As Whites? Ironically cutting lines is one of the things we Jamaicans hate. And inevitably, they had met Jamaicans and whatever, but tradition got in the way of anything ever evolving because of their traditional gender roles. Xavier: So heres the next question. I didnt say jamaicans invented rudeness either. I think we are more blunt and direct so it maybe a been off putting. So, in as much as the traditional protocol are beautiful to watch, if youre not from it, its a little hard to take. If you hear people laughing, speaking in a way that youre familiar with, or that resonates with your soul. They deserve love just like anyone else but you have to take care of yourself too. And you are exactly right, I learned in history the exact thing, even to this day the American government still have a policy to not let in too much jamaicans in the U.S. Where the ego part comes in like Marty said is when they get it back. I think the experience in Ghana is much more Which one is it? , Sambusak in My Pak (@MoriRebel) March 8, 2020. It was Black Uhuru, Steel Pulse. Most of these responses are based on feedback there and Asia, so far. Also we're not very good at hiding our true feelings so it's not surprising that some would interpret this as being mean. Being done up to the nines. Whats it Like Being a Jamaican Living in Australia? Although in Jamaica sexual Why Do Jamaicans And Ibibio Men Hate Tall Girls / Why Are Ghanaians So Mean? Thank God for the internet. Yes, they both feel like home. But the one thing that caught my attention was, you said, The dancing is to another level. Okay. But there's plenty of "traditionally" nice Jamaicans though lol, Ni-Ko-lis We-li-yams, MBA (@InTheNickATime) March 8, 2020. Ruth: Yes. In fact, I find that me and many of my family members and friends have experienced more aggression and inappropriate behaviour from African Americans than White Americans, which is not what any of us expected when we arrived. What I DID LEARN was that slaves were shipped from island to island as trade between slave owners. Making purchases via these links result in a small reward for us at no extra cost to you. Thank you for your support. The people who do eat it, eat it like a fruit. Yuh (you) coming tomorrow? Yes a coming tomorrow. Tomorrow pass, the next day pass, the next day pass. Xavier: Good. So, things are still assigned to gender in a way that we no longer assign them to in Jamaica. As one tweep explained, we have a short temper and an even shorter supply of patience. I dislike Southern Hospitality. The rest is history. Their open markets are like Coronation times 20. People call in sick to work. The same issues go for African American where they were made to feel discouraged about people of the islands and also Africa-that they differ. Stock Photos from Photos.com, iStockPhotos.com, 123rf. I stood and see more than one person get bloodied for some simple thing. I know thats bizarre for Americans and most other nationalities because America is a White Patriarchy. And I think you kind of got into that. Ghanaians I know do not speak negatively about Nigerians in fact they are peaceful and they are more focused on providing and protecting their families than worrying about what Nigerians are doing. TRUTH IS, Bajans and Trinis are not going to let up, so its up to you Jamaica to make your formal statement. Learn how your comment data is processed. (which part of Jamaica are you from), Ruth: A come from Kingston, near Barbican, close enough to Andrews and close enough to you guys down at JC. Ruth: Yes. TRUTH ISJAMAICA, heroes are never hailed by people who dont know how to get off their knees. Ruth: There we go, wheel and come again. Ruth: Its embedded somehow in the tradition of, you know, centuries. Can't stand foolishness and will call it out. 10 Singers and Rappers You May Not Know Were of Jamaican, Ann-Marie Campbell, Named to Head Home Depot 5 Things You Dont Know About Jamaican Rice and Peas, 15 Things Jamaicans Find Odd When they Moved to the USA. I wasnt dreaming about it. Thank you very much. Im dying to get back. Yes. Hello Marie! And now I couldn't get a new bank card. You know, when you enter a room, you have to greet people in a certain direction. No, Im not saying were going to kill you if you say the wrong thing. I wouldnt say that, its not that I dont like it, but its harder to get used to. In most countries gecko lizards are viewed as harmless creatures that do not attack and in some cases kept as pets. Call them what you might, but they were not getting on their knees! Because historically were so linked to Ghana. Im In Double Trouble With My Love Interests, Winning Return To The Ring For Jamaicas Axeman, Unconscionable for Taxpayers to Fund Politics, Frontier Airlines Launches More Flights to Montego Bay, Jamaica, Jamaica Removes Visa-Free Transit Privilege For Cuban Nationals. Youve seen attempts in Jamaica to have local music or local beats or indigenous beats re-introduce themselves into our music and our way of worship, but wi (we) nuh (dont) reach yet. Your ancestors must be bowing their heads in shame. You know, when you hear about a country, thats steeped in tradition, until you live that tradition, you dont really know what thats steeped in tradition means. But I hesitate when people ask me this because Ghana is not an attractions, a Memorial, a museum type place. Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. And this has happened in EVERY country I travel to. When you add a few decibels and fast hand movements, youre left wondering if you should run for your life. Its by far a more solid argument than ask anyone in the world. 2. I am sorry that that has been your experience with Jamaicans, but I cannot say the same as someone born and raised in the country and who has lived in two other countries since then. Have you ever wondered whats it like being a Jamaican living in Ghana? It was too short of a time. The other thing I like about Ghana is, well, theres so many things. Ruth: Okay. As a little girl in primary school, our teacher taught us that Barbados was the jewel of the Caribbean. Just so you know, so they eat Ackee here. You just spending, you know, the five days in Nigeria and the two days in Ghana, you could just see the temperament. The whole family system, the matrilineal system of the Akan or the Ashantis. Comedically Jamaicans are extremely witty with a unique humor. And I never came looking for it. A Conversation with Pretty Girls Can Cook Author Shantelee Brown. we might really be joking or not really being serious and it comes off as mean. When you come to the U.S., Americans want you to look American and sound American. Now, those of us from Jamaica, were like, But the person died. You are. What I always tell people, we are NOT mean. The annoyance of a person and going on about them or off at them can be so intriguing to watch as the person freaking out is also usually guilty of the same offenses. So, our Jamaican belief is truth, at all costs. But let me say this on the flip side, and you said something that was very interesting. I just sat there and took in the surroundings of the kids playing, the adults, the whatever and we did basically nothing. For the east indian nations It is notRead more . From what I have observed it is a egoistic culture. WebGhanaJamaica relations refers to the bilateral relations between Ghana and Jamaica. If I said to you, Xavier, bwoy (boy), mi a (I am) get married next week enuh (you know), yuh (you) coming to the wedding? As a Jamaican, yuh seh, Bwoy mi have sumn book fi next week so, a cya come. (you say, boy I have something book for next week so, a cannot come). When you see people walking and their body rocks like your body rocks or when they dance. Jamaicans are not mean. So, that stew with that, and yeah. Sliding in beside a friend, asking someone if they can cut in front or rushing the gate. Some will go as far as find a reason why the murder of Haitians is justifiable. Now, Jamaica tek (take) dancing to another level, youre saying that, not even close? You know, I think at some point we will were going to dig deep enough to find it. I miss the beach and it sounds weird because were on a coast here, but our beaches are different and there isnt a beach culture here. But once you get it, youre there. Generally speaking, we dont like stupid questions and we hate repeating ourselves. Ruth: I mean, its generally younger people who do it. If you would like to evacuate a room of Jamaicans quickly, scream croaking lizard. WebSixty per cent of Jamaicans say they reject the lifestyle compared to the 46 per cent in 2012. If you have Jamaicans in your life, cherish them. If one more Georgian hits me with the "Southern hospitality" a rass maw go rass somebody. Ruth: I tell this to, African-Americans as well, because we come with the same quest for Ghana. Parents dont send their children to school. they give all Black folks a bad reputation. We are an unbothered people for the most part. Ruth: Ill give you a classic example. Total BS headline. WebHaitians and Jamaicans, just like many other immigrants groups in the U.S, have tension because they see each other as competition. . We know how to party until the sun comes up and can just as easily relax at home and sleep through the Sunday rainfall. We ate, you know, we went up, they had these trees that you that-. They were the men and women who could not be broken. That makes zero sense to me and Im not waving back., Overseas people tend to be more euphemistic when expressing their frustration. I can respect that. No. Join our newsletter to get the latest articles, news, & videos. It is therefore not DNA based but a pure sociological ill that can be address frontally. Xavier: So food, lets talk food. Shame on you. I appreciate your outlook and will say that we get on much better with Canadians than Americans, in Jamaica. Xavier: So, are you saying theyre a little like us. Ruth: Theres a time. What I have zero respect for is the White lady waving to me while standing under the Confederate flag over her front porch. Just easy yourself and itll be Jamaica; no problem, I come with baggage (@aly_berry1) March 8, 2020, So, what did she want you to say? If youve never seen jokes about this in pop culture before, Ill start you off with this video. So it boils down to racism or the belief My mother always says when we keep having negative experiences in life, we should consider that were the common denominator and then examine why that is. Honestly it's the oolder Ghanaian population who are always judging .. And they usually form opinions just by looking at the "419"guys in Ghana but the younger generation like them and are okay with them.. democracies can be very persuasive. EpicJamaica (@epicjamaica) March 8, 2020, Alexis Chateau (@alexischateau_) March 8, 2020, This is one of the big reasons I'm leaving the Southeast. Much of the hype of hatred of any form is But twice we lived in South Africa twice. Also, what many outsiders view as us fussing is us having a good time. WebApparently, some Africans perceive Jamaicans as rude and think they give all Black folks a bad reputation. I love Nigerians, I dont just know, seriously Ghanians should stop the hatings, when they come over the internet, they pretend to hate us, but when they see an advert of work from a nigerian home abroad, they will be the first to rush to call over the phone that they need the job. But they also cant handled being cheated on for example. Toruk Makto (@BufbertBeefcake) March 8, 2020. My anecdote, as you condescendingly put it (theres that jamaican charm again), comes from working with only Jamaicans for the last 2 and a half years. The majority of Jamaicans arent. Maybe you knew a lot of poor Jamaicans and poor people have similar problems anywhere. So be very clear. Remember, the Irish suffer the same fate despite being quite northern themselves. I didnt have to spend years there to see that one. They know which parts, they know that it has to open, as well. You show them their weaknesses. WebThis decision has generated more poverty for the people because while salary remains stagnant, transportation and cost of food has jumped up badly. The two cents that I'd add is that we aren't necessarily mean but rather we were raised to be thick skinned and outspoken. Ruth: They dont eat boiled green bananas here. Going to work or school on a rainy day Mi wi cum, wen de rain ease up So, Fufu is a mix of cassava, typically cassava and planting, green plantain, planting, mashed to a sticky kind of, pulp. Which is a rice in a tomato base and it has meat and whatever, but its just very flavorful. I wont. Listen a lot and talk less. But even through the yelling, chances are well reach an understanding. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. The Chieftaincy System runs alongside the Government System the one that were used to, but they both have quite a You know, even the Chieftaincy System has a significant amount of power. Jamaicans like many others cultures have things they hate. That would be you, darling. Pride primarily plays out in CLASS structure in Jamaica. So when you go abroad and even when, you know, I travel abroad you get this, whats your funniest moment when someone discovered, you know, a Ghanaian discovered that you were Jamaican. But its all very tasty, very peppery, very flavored with different smoked fishes. Too well,in fact,if you know what I mean. Ive had to explain to a Scottish-Canadian that Im only joking with my abusive humour. Ruth: But in terms of those wow Jamaica moment, yuh (you) get the Usain Bolt, yuh (you) get the Reggae. Copyright Simbis Inc.All rights reserved.Privacy Policy & Terms of use. Mean? So, its hierarchical in terms of tradition, in terms of gender, in terms of age. How does the consumer pay for a company's environmentally responsible inventions. I asked him why, and he said it was because other Jamaican-Americans he knew influenced him And just seeing people stand up with their hands a kimbo, it just felt familiar. Likewhat?? 5.Small gravy portions Nuh gi mi nuh dry so so food, put more gravy pon it Maybe its not the race, but the nationality and the culture that comes with it? More propaganda, thats all.kmt. Look like a police or look like a criminal. Canadians are not as bossy and the Commonwealth ties sometimes makes it easier for us to catch the dry humour. On a good day, well humour you. I would tell you the truth straight up. (4420 Views), Somalis, Ethiopians, Eritreans Are Superior / There's Something About Us Nigerians. At this point, their eyes are bulging out of their heads. Maybe some psychologists can explain it, but it resonates in a way that makes you feel good. But it is this way. Yes. Right? They would only inherit from me, but thats changed, but thats to show you the traditional system that I keep bucking up against. I guess home is where the family is too. We got married at UWI Chapel. The first time I came was in 90, I want to say 91. but all the island peoples are family. TRUTH! However, your observation of how that pride plays out is shallow and inaccurate. Why do you people loose sleep over a perceived hatred from Ghanians? This is all also part of ego and a learned hardened exterior they have. Xavier: So, my next question is this one, what was the biggest adjustment there? Okay. Dressing to the nines. People do not posture for looks and ego. Meanwhile, when I lived in Georgia, there were African Americans protesting at universities that affirmative action shouldnt be open to other non-White races/ethnicities and that Black people from other countries shouldnt have access either. Why didnt they bow down and be normal? They claim Jamaica also, obviously. 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